By Lorene Lee
Living with ALS since 2010
This is the fifth in a series of posts from people living with ALS who are featured in our #VoiceYourLove campaign. Lorene composed this message using assistive communication technology with a visual-tracking system. She typed the words, one letter at a time, using her eyes.
In my first attempt to write this letter to you, I had written a few paragraphs on my marriage and life. But later, I got to thinking it sounded just like any other couple, going through the usual everyday problems. The next morning, I was going to change everything. When I got to my device, it was erased. What happened is beyond me. This is a problem I sometimes face with this computer. So I will begin again with what I really want to express.
When I first met Tony in 1982, he really helped me to blossom (he does not acknowledge it- but it is the truth)! My husband Tony and I have been married for 32 years and raised our two children, Andrea and Brian, together. Our home is my sanctuary and I am happy that we have had so many happy memories here. Like when my daughter came tearing down the sidewalk in her Big Wheel, at age 5. And when our son got in serious trouble around age 6, with tears flowing, he sobbed and said, “Don’t kick me out! I need a place to live, too!”.
Fast forward to getting them ready for prom nights and having so many family and friend gatherings. There is a lot of heart around my house.
When I was first diagnosed with ALS in 2010, I knew it was going to be serious because of all the different tests I took. So, in a sense, I was prepared for bad news. It was Tony that took it so hard. He had lost both his sister and his father earlier that same year, and we were also caring for his 16 year-old niece. It was an unbelievable time in our story.
By 2012, I had lost my ability to speak and now rely on a speech-generating device with an eye-tracking system to communicate.
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